Why I still bake, alone if I can: the simple joy of doing something familiar (recipe)

Why I still bake, alone if I can: the simple joy of doing something familiar (recipe)

I didn’t grow up in a baking home. As the child of an Asian immigrant, and on top of that a child of the 80s, our home was all about brand-name American packaged food. If there was something baked in the house it was most likely made with love by Hostess, Nabisco, or Duncan Hines. [...]

“Hello, my eyes are right here!” – on plastic surgery and being a happy mom

“Hello, my eyes are right here!” – on plastic surgery and being a happy mom

The other day I was in the plastic surgeon’s office again. It was a rescheduled appointment. The week before, my doctor actually talked me out of doing what I wanted her to do. She knew I had a magazine assignment and she said I wouldn’t want to go out so soon afterwards. We discussed the [...]

Five things I want for Mother’s Day 2013

Five things I want for Mother’s Day 2013

I have really high expectations for Mother’s Day this year. Almost impossible actually. Instead of a card or chocolates (please don’t), and in lieu of a crowded Mother’s Day brunch or a kids’ birthstone trinket, what I really want is time. Lots and lots of time, the kind that disappears quickly into the day to [...]

We bought a house for them: what home means with kids

We bought a house for them: what home means with kids

We’ve lived in our house for going on seven years. When we moved in here there were some things that I knew needed immediate attention, like the forest green trim outside and the eggplant walls all over the kitchen and the play room. I still dislike that eggplant color every day, even though a few [...]

A space of my own: why every mom should have a mom cave

A space of my own: why every mom should have a mom cave

Right now outside the door of my home office there are noisy 3-year-old twins having a pullback toy car race on the hardwood floor, intermittently giggling and fighting over who won or who should wait their turn. I have mismatched family photos on my Ikea desk and a photo of a dream romantic bedroom I clipped [...]

Cooking with my daughters – homemade pizzas on the grill

Cooking with my daughters – homemade pizzas on the grill

I’m so excited to share another guest post  from my talented working mom friend Michelle Weller. Michelle makes the most beautiful meals with fresh ingredients for her family. Her daughters: Isabelle, 5, and Abigail, 4, both look like they’re having so much fun making these homemade pizzas on the grill – perfect for the warm weather coming up. I love her two easy [...]

100 Awesome People I Know: my working mom idol

100 Awesome People I Know: my working mom idol

About 100 Awesome People I Know I’ve always been the most awkward person I know. When I was a kid I was a classic nervous smart girl. School was easy so I should have been bored but mostly I was just uncomfortable in my own skin. The only way I ever had a strong “voice” [...]

What my family does for Earth Day every day

What my family does for Earth Day every day

Today is Earth Day. My 3-year-old twins know it’s Earth Day just like they know when it’s Valentine’s Day, Easter, and Christmas. I think that’s pretty cool. There are families who do more eco-friendly, organic, sustainable, locally-sourced, and low carbon footprint living than we do. I’d like us to be like them but we’re not. [...]

Interviewing my husband: twin dad Irvin

Interviewing my husband: twin dad Irvin

At difficult times like these moms are often heard saying, “I want to go home and hug my kids.” For me, that sense of needing to circle the wagons around my family has come up a few times. And with every step we’ve taken with our twins, my husband Irvin has been there. Irvin is my [...]

Changing what my twins eat: bringing back my Kitchen A Game

Changing what my twins eat: bringing back my Kitchen A Game

I made my twins’ baby food at home. That’s the best part of our food story to date and a reason why lately I’ve been doing some reorganizing in the kitchen. Somewhere between the attention I gave to their first foods and now, I’ve seen their toddler/preschool palates shrink down quite a bit. When they [...]